For many complicated reasons, I am not going to be able to say goodbye, in person, to someone I care about. My friend knows I would want to say goodbye. We both understand that will not happen. But I feel peace in knowing that he has faith in me. He knows I will miss him. And, I know he forgives the reasons why we can’t say goodbye in person.
Life rarely ever happens as we expect.
So, my friends, please allow me to say goodbye here. He will read it.
Words are meaningless here. But they are all I have. Forgive me.
I met you when my children were younger. We were both in difficult places in our lives and we shared so much about our love for life, our need for change and how we would get there. I know your road was difficult. But I loved that our conversations ended on a positive note every time.
I know you finally found the peace you so deserved. Yet, my heart breaks knowing you won’t get more time to enjoy that new life space.
Now you have limited time remaining on this earth. And, I’m heart-broken. Losing you will send a shockwave through our community. We will be affected by your leaving. You meant something to many.
I know very little of these last few months. But, I know that you are surrounded with people who love you. They are flawed, as we all are, but they love you. I know you know that.
I’ve learned that death is not an end. It’s a transition. A migration. A change. A new birth.
And so it is with you. You may not realize all the impacts you have had on this world. Or you may feel that they are insignificant. But, I know otherwise. Because you have impacted my life significantly. No one who was touched by you will ever forget you.
So, let me thank you for our experiences together. Thank you for the gift of appreciating every moment I have – an unintended consequence of your illness. Thank you for having faith in me. It helped me move forward in ways I could not have imagined.
Goodbye my friend. I value all that you are. I will always treasure the scar I am left with by your leaving.
I pray for your peaceful transition.