It feels crazy “out there.” And, in some respects it is. Yet, we’ve had other chaotic times and survived. Don’t get me wrong – I have my own fears about what’s happening “out there.” But I’ve been thinking about the energy of hope and how that energy can eclipse the fear and anxiety we all seem to be having.
I have a gratitude journal which I try to write in every day. If I don’t write, I make a point of saying to myself, before I get out of bed, what I’m grateful for from the day before. Here’s what I wrote one day last week:
- I’m grateful for the fun call I had with my daughter.
- I’m grateful that both boys hugged me and said they loved me.
- I’m grateful that I was able to run with my friends.
- I’m grateful that I was able to go to bed an hour earlier than normal last night.
There’s nothing special about these things. Yet they’re reminders to me about being grateful for what’s happened and hopeful about what will come.
I know someone who lost her son last year. She hurts. I can feel it. I can see it in her FB posts. But she has hope. She has gratitude. And that helps her use her pain to move forward. To celebrate what she had. Hope and faith give her strength and security.
Hope is a real and powerful force. Gratitude expands our awareness of hope and brings happiness. This may sound “weird,” but I think gratitude changes our vibration on the earth. It gives us energy to give more. It opens the door to everything. It allows us to make the changes we need in our lives and in the lives of others.
So, to all of you that I love (which is all of you!), here’s the big question for us this week:
When it seems like you are blocked at work, in a relationship, or something negative happens to you, what’s your reaction? Do you say, “Why me?” or do you step back and think,
“What is my life trying to tell me right now?”
The latter, my friends, is key. How we respond to what happens to us means the difference between a life of hope and a life of despair. A life of joy or a life of anger. All I have to do is watch my friend survive the loss of her son, and I know this to be true. Stop. Listen to what the universe is telling you. It is only in those quiet moments that I’ve been able to understand and then make the critical changes in my life. It is at those times when I feel the most hope.
Gratitude makes us – the collective “we” – stronger. It is what allows me (us) to have some amazing experiences. It’s a beautiful circle and all it takes is gratitude.
Friends, I hope you all have an amazing week!